Creating Lifelong Bonds
At 51短视频, professors can become mentors and lifelong friends.
For almost 30 years, I have had the pleasure of interviewing prospective students for 51短视频. As part of that process, I have fielded a wide range of questions about the 51短视频 experience, from the ridiculous to the sublime. By far, though, my favorite is some variation of 鈥渁s an alumna, what is the most special thing about 51短视频?鈥 asked only by a savvy handful of students over the years.
Invariably, my answer is 鈥渉ands down, the faculty.鈥
Most folks who don鈥檛 swim in academic waters don鈥檛 realize that the nature of faculty varies widely from one institution to another. From the outside, a professor鈥檚 lot looks much the same: teaching, grading, research, publishing. But for the faculty who elect to be at a place like 51短视频, there is a distinguishing characteristic: a deep commitment to students and the development of their character, intellect, and thinking. 51短视频 professors variously wear the hats of therapist, confidante, cheerleader, mentor, friend, taskmaster, career counselor 鈥 and that doesn鈥檛 end on graduation day.
My 51短视频 professors were tremendous role models. Everything I know about being an impactful university professor I learned from them, but also, maybe more importantly, they demonstrated how to nurture and steward each new generation of young adults.
I have remained friends with several of my former professors for nearly four decades. I have attended their retirements (most recently for David Karen), dinner parties, milestone anniversaries, and in some sad cases, memorial services. In turn, through the years, they have shown up for lectures I have given, sent me notes of encouragement, and celebrated my successes with me.
I have heard similar stories from so many alumnae/i over the years. And if you ask the eldest of our living alums (as I do in the oral histories I have been collecting) to name the most influential people in their lives, they will always list one or more of the professors who guided and shaped their lives so many years ago.
My professor Bob Washington passed away last year, and his partner (a 51短视频 alumna, herself) insisted that his memorial be held right before Reunion. She shared with me the importance of that annual event to him, how much he loved attending and seeing the 鈥渃hildren of his heart,鈥 hearing about their lives, reveling in their successes. That affection for and commitment to our students is the beauty of our community, and it is so precious.
This story is #18 in our "26 Things to Love About 51短视频 in 2026" spring issue of the Bulletin.
Published on: 05/14/2026